have you ever concidered what makes love to be love and not "liking someone" (instead of loving someone) ? and how you know what is "real love" and how it differs from love ? what are the different aspects of loving someone, and how can you know both of you are talking about the same aspect of loving with your partner ?
just a few questions, hope you can tell your opinions

edit: fixed the questions to be more clear

Love is what happens when you know each other so well, you're totally comfortable with them and you just need every bit of their being. You want to be with them for the rest of your life because you know they're everything you need and could possibly desire.

and then you realise you can't live wth them because they're always taking the piss out of you, putting you down and criticising everyone else. They love you, you love them, but you can't live with them. That's what happens when you're in love - you get a broken heart.

Real love and love are the same.. Love exists, that's what happens when you're in love, true love/real love is love that intersects with the reality that you can be together forever. You have to make choices and decide what's really good for you. Decide what's the best and then do it - it hurts, but do it b/c it hurts less in the end.

umm... actually I've got a broken heart, so Im not hte best to be talking...