well i do it easy for you and admit i was wrong

the three options were as follows:
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automatic: service starts when the system starts
manual: service is started when a program needing it or other part that needs it is started
disabled: service will not start and the ones which are depending on it will fail to start as well
when you go to administrative tools -> services -> properties of the service you are interested of -> select startup type and open that box and then press F1 it tells you about that

sorry, my confusion.. :/