Too Much Sad In My Life....
| ^ATOMIC^ |
 Jul 19 2004, 01:21 AM
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Well guys its time for me to post what has been happaning in my life since it is pissing me off and eating me inside....
For all of you that remember my girlfriend Natalie, who was once on this forum and chatted in the irc channel. We have now broken up :( whitch is the worst thing in my lfie that could ever happen. It has been a week now since we have broken up and life has been hell for me. Sleeping eating everything and now school has started back up again its hard even more with the work load that is going to be hiting me. (P.S. i'm not leaving the forum its not one of thoese posts) But jsut wanted to tell you guys thats why me been missing for the last week or two becasue life has jsut been shit. 2 and a half years gone like that we still friends but its still fucking hard. Thats it for now jstu thinking and typing about this is hurting.................... -------------------- |
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| ManX |
Jul 20 2004, 05:02 PM
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 Confusion Reigns Group: Private Member Posts: 68 Joined: 19-March 04 From: The Great Northwest, USA Member No.: 41 |
As a certified 'old fart' who has been married twice before my current (and last) one, I agree with DutchKid 100%. Even tho' it is really hard, you should try stepping back -way back. So far back that you don't see her or talk to her for at least a few weeks, and a month or more if possible. Will it hurt? Sure it will. Will you find yourself making all kinds of excuses as to why you should see her or talk to her again? You betcha. But just like a toothache, the more you play with it the more it hurts. Just leave her alone while you work things out inside your own head. I screwed up my 1st marriage... and I didn't want to let go - even when she divorced me. I hung around and tried all sorts of crazy ideas to try and get back what I'd lost, but the only thing I got was more emotional pain. The only way I found to actually take the advice I (and DutchKid) am giving was to move 2000 miles away. That did it, and within a few weeks I started to recover. I learned from that. My 2nd marriage ended when she and I realized we made great friends - but a lousy husband and wife. We BOTH stepped away for a month or two after the divorce, and now we are still close friends. We email, we chat on the phone, we laugh, and their ain't any hangups about what used-to-be. As 'Da Kid says: Let it end. Later, if you both want to, you can be friends again. Best of luck fighting yourself... I know you'll do right in the end. -ManX -------------------- Few of the great creators have bland personalities. They are cantankerous egotists, the kind of people who are unwelcome in polite society. (David Ogilvy)
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^ATOMIC^ Too Much Sad In My Life.... Jul 19 2004, 01:21 AM
bloodshot /hugs
Everything ends up good in the end. Rememb... Jul 19 2004, 02:25 AM Awai sorry to hear that atomic - keep moving yourself f... Jul 19 2004, 09:58 AM Messenger
That's harsh .... you're a bigger man tha... Jul 19 2004, 10:56 AM Bearsland I'm sorry to hear this mate. :(
To repeat wha... Jul 19 2004, 01:22 PM SailCat Sorry to hear you're going through a tough tim... Jul 19 2004, 10:31 PM dInferno I know it sux to end a long term relationship. My... Jul 19 2004, 10:50 PM ^ATOMIC^ thx guys its helpig alot....
another bad thing is... Jul 20 2004, 12:02 AM DutchKid You'll have to leave it alone. Don't keep ... Jul 20 2004, 09:15 AM SailCat Y'know, ^ATOMIC^, you reminded me of myself (a... Jul 20 2004, 03:44 PM
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